Love you ….. For now!

Weekends is mostly when you get time to get out of your routine, loosen up a bit, wake up late, and plan something that doesnt involve your college, office or what ever it is where you go on weekdays.
So now that you’re out probably at a cafe or at the movies you see people around you. I mean it is obvious aint it? What crap am I talking about as armageddon didnt obviously happen, we do see people. All kindsa people.

Among the crowds are those who hold hands and happily flaunt the fact of them being a couple, these are the ones that I am gonna talk about today. You might see friends or jus slapstick no strings attached kinda kind of couples but then the committed ones are easier to spot. You know that already so what is it all about and why am I dragging it through for so long?

Maybe because there is a fat chance that you might be someone who has been one of those people at some point in time. You for one might already be in a relationship, or broken up, or maybe just in school. Nonetheless its never too late to ponder upon something that might be useful.

So lets get on to it. It is awesome to have someone in our lives someone who we can love, share, fall back upon, trust and commit, but what bothers me is this. Everyone has a favorite place to hang out so might you. How often do you see the same regulars there? Seldom eh? Ever noticed why? Why is it that around you so many people break up after some time and so few stick together and lead a happy life? 

Funny thing I noticed that the answer was a very small difference. 

But before that lets see how it all begins, initially when any relationship starts, everything is so delicate, everyone is so bloody trustworthy, everything is pink and red, everytime flock of pigeons fly by in the city, you look at them and think of that person, every sunset in the balcony reminds you of the smile that you love and adore. But as time passes by, strangely though, the human mind starts taking over the heart with a tool so potent, a weapon so powerful that the poor heart just gives up the argument. Wondering what the hell is that now? Well its called logic. Let me be honest with you I have seen many unsuccessful relationships and the only reason for that is because the brain has taken over the heart with the use of this particular weapon. Logic is like a gun it pin points the problem and gets rid of it by finding a solution.
My question is simple though, why the hell do we need a gun? Moreover why do we suddenly make the transition of treating something so delicate like love as a problem that needs a solution? 

Everything in the bigenning is so illogical, dumb even, but then its found to be cute as we adore the sweet nothings thay are done to win someone over. Why is it that once we win our love we give up on being illogical? 

You see, any relationship under stress will withhold until the termite of logic doesnt corrode away the concrete of love that binds two hearts. It slowly makes you prone to ask questions that are not required. Makes you doubt, makes you look beyond your own self and search for love in places other than your partner.

It is easy to let go of a relationship and even easier to find out flaws in people. But when your loved one is already people there is no need to take the pain even to find flaws. Cuz dear friends weren’t you the one who accepted your partners proposal inspite of their flaws?

Remember I spoke of a very funny thing that I had noticed? 

Well that funny thing was “Purpose“. Which is irrelevant to be honest as love is beyond all logic and purpose, but this irrelevant word changes itself to many things and we forget why we started this relationship in the first place.

To those who are yet to find their love, you guys are safe and to those who have found your loved one and ever run into a blockade and you thinking of quitting just think about why you started in the first place.

Life is like a straight line. We use logic, ego and distractions to mess shit up. 

The Waterman